Polyandry/Poligamy in Uttarakhand

These images were taken in village called Mungaad in the Chakrata district of Uttarakhand.

According to the folklore in the region, the Pandavas spent their 'Van Vaas' in these forests. A direct result of this is the tradition of Polyandry where one woman has more than one husband at a time, usually all the brothers in the family. Uttarakhand is one of the few places in India where this is practiced. 

Polygamy may be practised for a lot of reasons; one of them being "families in areas of scarce farmable land to hold agricultural estates together. The marriage of all brothers in a family to the same wife allows plots of family-owned land to remain intact and undivided."

Just 24 years of age, Rajo is married to 5 brothers of the family, much like Draupadi in Mahabharata who is married to the Pandava Brothers.

The kids are raised collectively by the family and there is no pressure to know their children's paternal lineage .

Rajo was 25 when this photograph was made.

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#HousesOfIndia Story 9 - Enchanted

Walk down the main Mall Road in Darjeeling and ask anybody for the Plants' home, and you will be immediately pointed to a small path covered in flowers and coniferous trees. Almost hidden out of view, is a little cottage right out of the pages of a fairytale, and its occupants are Austin and Shala Plant - an architect and teacher respectively.

Local celebrities, the Plants have lived in this house for over 35 years. Not just that, Mr. Plant designed their home himself, and the pride in his eyes when he talks about it is unmistakable. 

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Very few of us are lucky enough to proudly claim that we built our abode ourselves, with our blood, sweat, and unbridled love!

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